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	<title>Comments on: &#8216;Dear Hodges&#8217; Broken Heart Surgeon</title>
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		<title>By: Jennifer6</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jennifer6</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 23:05:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OMG! You&#039;re hilarious. This is too funny. Count me in as a regular subscriber.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OMG! You&#8217;re hilarious. This is too funny. Count me in as a regular subscriber.</p>
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		<title>By: Celeste</title>
		<link>http://www.massappealnews.com/2009/02/28/dear-hodges-broken-heart-surgeon/comment-page-1/#comment-518</link>
		<dc:creator>Celeste</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Jun 2009 23:28:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have been reading your articles for awhile. Nice post!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have been reading your articles for awhile. Nice post!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Fresh Prince</title>
		<link>http://www.massappealnews.com/2009/02/28/dear-hodges-broken-heart-surgeon/comment-page-1/#comment-500</link>
		<dc:creator>Fresh Prince</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2009 23:48:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A woman can live with me as long as she don&#039;t mind cooking and cleaning. Hey its a dirty job but somebody gotta do it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A woman can live with me as long as she don&#8217;t mind cooking and cleaning. Hey its a dirty job but somebody gotta do it.</p>
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		<title>By: Stephanie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stephanie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 May 2009 23:41:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Fun website. I will continue to follow.</description>
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		<title>By: Ruthless Lover</title>
		<link>http://www.massappealnews.com/2009/02/28/dear-hodges-broken-heart-surgeon/comment-page-1/#comment-367</link>
		<dc:creator>Ruthless Lover</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 May 2009 23:27:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Diva 2010 don&#039;t make that man move in until yow both ready. Its not meant for everybody to live together unda the same roof. I was given an ultimatum once and it didnt work out. Give the man some space.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Diva 2010 don&#8217;t make that man move in until yow both ready. Its not meant for everybody to live together unda the same roof. I was given an ultimatum once and it didnt work out. Give the man some space.</p>
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		<title>By: Sheena</title>
		<link>http://www.massappealnews.com/2009/02/28/dear-hodges-broken-heart-surgeon/comment-page-1/#comment-337</link>
		<dc:creator>Sheena</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2009 00:25:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Diva 2010, please don&#039;t rush moving in together. I made that mistake once and promised to never it again. As women we always want things right away but you must move in together for the right reasons.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Diva 2010, please don&#8217;t rush moving in together. I made that mistake once and promised to never it again. As women we always want things right away but you must move in together for the right reasons.</p>
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		<title>By: White Chic</title>
		<link>http://www.massappealnews.com/2009/02/28/dear-hodges-broken-heart-surgeon/comment-page-1/#comment-257</link>
		<dc:creator>White Chic</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 May 2009 00:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This sexy blonde loves a man that isn&#039;t afraid to spend a little dough. I&#039;m not a material girl, I&#039;m just a girl that loves materials.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This sexy blonde loves a man that isn&#8217;t afraid to spend a little dough. I&#8217;m not a material girl, I&#8217;m just a girl that loves materials.</p>
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		<title>By: Angel Cake</title>
		<link>http://www.massappealnews.com/2009/02/28/dear-hodges-broken-heart-surgeon/comment-page-1/#comment-160</link>
		<dc:creator>Angel Cake</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2009 03:51:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There&#039;s nothin&#039; wrong with a man buying us nice gifts to express his love. I don&#039;t care if we&#039;re in a recession, a real man will find a way to provide for his woman.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There&#8217;s nothin&#8217; wrong with a man buying us nice gifts to express his love. I don&#8217;t care if we&#8217;re in a recession, a real man will find a way to provide for his woman.</p>
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		<title>By: HODGES</title>
		<link>http://www.massappealnews.com/2009/02/28/dear-hodges-broken-heart-surgeon/comment-page-1/#comment-110</link>
		<dc:creator>HODGES</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Apr 2009 22:23:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Preach Lady Lynette, Preach!!!</description>
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		<title>By: Lady Lynette</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lady Lynette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2009 04:16:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>SHE SAID HE’S JUST A FRIEND—
  From a Lady Lynette’s point of view- I feel that if you don’t have trust, you are lost anyway.  I have a few male friends from  high school and I dare my man to dictate if I can have a male friend or not!  He knows that I love him and will never step over the boundary of love with a friend.  You men need to have a little trust.  For years women  have let their men have a female friend with trust.  Hell, I know my man’s female friends and they know me.  They don’t call my house or anything.  I know that they exist; I am very comfortable about their friendship and TRUST that he knows where his bread is buttered.   

HOLD UP HODGES—You of all people, know that LOVE without TRUST is a disaster.  Men, give us a little bit of credit!  Yes, some men do feel the first time the relationship goes sour we will run into the arms of that friend.  With most of our friends we, “… been there, done that, and don’t want to go back”. That is the reason we can just say that they are our friends.  Why not have trust in us good women because we trust our good men?  

I’M A MATERIAL GIRL—Well first off, maybe I should tell you that you need to be thankful instead of complaining!  If he didn’t get you anything, you would be crying about that.  Take time and give our men some love and respect for the little things they do, because some men are not mushy men and we can’t make them be what we want them to be. You have too much time on your hands trying to count how much everything is.  What did you get him for his gifts?  Hell, I understand my man and know how he rolls, so I cooked him a candlelight dinner and gave him a massage for his gift.  He loved it and smiled all day.  He gave me a card with a $50 bill in it.  I am happy, yet thankful, that money does not calculate the love for our relationship.  Material shall pass away but my love will forever stand.

RIGHT ON THE NOSE HODGES- She needs to rethink about her relationship and see if it is built on money or honey.


GIVE ME THE GREEN LIGHT—Hell, you said you’ve only known her for a few weeks.  Are you ready to get married or what?  Slow it down Mr. Kenya.  It seems like all you are counting is how many times you spent money on her.  That is not important to some of us fine American women.  Relax and wait to see how things go.  You have not spent thirty days with this woman and you are trying to make a move.  I can assure you that she doesn’t love you yet and is just enjoying herself trying to get to know you.

STOP HODGES— Are you trying to get him slapped in his mouth?  First of all, I must ask, “What does making a move on her mean to you Kenya men?”  If he licks his lips at me and has only known me a few weeks, I am not sure how I would take it.  He might still be licking his lips 10 years from now.  It might even turn me off it depends on how good it looks.  All women are not the same and have different values about what she considers appropriate and inappropriate for a few weeks.  You don’t want it to seem like he is jumping from the front door to the frying skillet.  Take your time and be patient with her.  Concentrate on learning what makes her tick and what she likes instead of making a move.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>SHE SAID HE’S JUST A FRIEND—<br />
  From a Lady Lynette’s point of view- I feel that if you don’t have trust, you are lost anyway.  I have a few male friends from  high school and I dare my man to dictate if I can have a male friend or not!  He knows that I love him and will never step over the boundary of love with a friend.  You men need to have a little trust.  For years women  have let their men have a female friend with trust.  Hell, I know my man’s female friends and they know me.  They don’t call my house or anything.  I know that they exist; I am very comfortable about their friendship and TRUST that he knows where his bread is buttered.   </p>
<p>HOLD UP HODGES—You of all people, know that LOVE without TRUST is a disaster.  Men, give us a little bit of credit!  Yes, some men do feel the first time the relationship goes sour we will run into the arms of that friend.  With most of our friends we, “… been there, done that, and don’t want to go back”. That is the reason we can just say that they are our friends.  Why not have trust in us good women because we trust our good men?  </p>
<p>I’M A MATERIAL GIRL—Well first off, maybe I should tell you that you need to be thankful instead of complaining!  If he didn’t get you anything, you would be crying about that.  Take time and give our men some love and respect for the little things they do, because some men are not mushy men and we can’t make them be what we want them to be. You have too much time on your hands trying to count how much everything is.  What did you get him for his gifts?  Hell, I understand my man and know how he rolls, so I cooked him a candlelight dinner and gave him a massage for his gift.  He loved it and smiled all day.  He gave me a card with a $50 bill in it.  I am happy, yet thankful, that money does not calculate the love for our relationship.  Material shall pass away but my love will forever stand.</p>
<p>RIGHT ON THE NOSE HODGES- She needs to rethink about her relationship and see if it is built on money or honey.</p>
<p>GIVE ME THE GREEN LIGHT—Hell, you said you’ve only known her for a few weeks.  Are you ready to get married or what?  Slow it down Mr. Kenya.  It seems like all you are counting is how many times you spent money on her.  That is not important to some of us fine American women.  Relax and wait to see how things go.  You have not spent thirty days with this woman and you are trying to make a move.  I can assure you that she doesn’t love you yet and is just enjoying herself trying to get to know you.</p>
<p>STOP HODGES— Are you trying to get him slapped in his mouth?  First of all, I must ask, “What does making a move on her mean to you Kenya men?”  If he licks his lips at me and has only known me a few weeks, I am not sure how I would take it.  He might still be licking his lips 10 years from now.  It might even turn me off it depends on how good it looks.  All women are not the same and have different values about what she considers appropriate and inappropriate for a few weeks.  You don’t want it to seem like he is jumping from the front door to the frying skillet.  Take your time and be patient with her.  Concentrate on learning what makes her tick and what she likes instead of making a move.</p>
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