Dating Diva: Time for Makeover?
ARE YOU STILL SINGLE? IT MAY BE TIME FOR A MAKEOVER. By J.J. Smith
WASHINGTON, D.C. – A beauty transformation is an integral part of your dating action plan. A beauty transformation is about maximizing your physical beauty to the fullest. Your transformation is about making the most of whatever God has given you to work with and improving the aspects of your appearance that are within your control (weight, fitness, overall health, hair, skin, etc.). It is about dressing in a manner that allows you to show off your best assets, whether that be your legs, cleavage, butt, face or hair.
I don’t mean getting oversized boobs or other types of drastic cosmetic surgery, but maximizing your physical attributes/features to always look your best. If you want to enjoy a vibrant dating life, you may need to undergo a beauty transformation as described in Why I Love Men: The Joys of Dating. In the book, I share techniques that any woman can use to look and feel her best–and maximize her physical beauty without cosmetic surgery.
Her 10 steps to a beauty transformation are:
1. Seek professional advice from a personal image consultant or your closest girlfriends. Objective feedback from someone in the know is the place to start.
2. Learn to dress for your body type. There’s no single standard of beauty and there are dozens of body types and shapes. Select clothes to accentuate your assets, but realize what works for someone else may not be right for you.
3. Purchase attractive attire. Shop with a clear focus and direction–be deliberate in getting clothes that match your body assets. To achieve a look of sexy, casual and chic one may try fitted jeans, sexy tops and push-up bras.
4. Upgrade your hairstyle. Go to www.hairstyler.com and upload your photo and try on various hairstyles to see how they look on you.
5. Go for a face makeover. Learn how to effectively apply make-up and which colors look best on you. Ensure a fresh and modern look by consulting a department store for a free cosmetic makeover.
6. Leverage hair, skin and nail vitamins. Taking daily multivitamins is a good start, but explore others like niacin and biotin to help the skin and hair.
7. Develop a skin care routine. Getting facials, using a moisturizer and a daily face peel are vital. A good objective site with cosmetic product reviews is: www.makeupalley.com.
8. Reshape your eyebrows. The shape of your eyebrows will help define your entire face. Pick an eyebrow shape that matches our facial features. A good brow shaping can enhance your face shape and contours.
9. Maintain an exercise routine to look and feel better; Complement a solid exercise routine with a healthy diet and SLEEP!
10. In addition to focusing on outward beauty, apply the same rigor to maintaining optimal inner health using various techniques to reduce aging, ensure a strong immune system, and maintain energy, health and vitality.
It is important to remember that men ask women out because they are physically or sexually attracted to them. Therefore, a beauty transformation is one the most effective methods for attracting men. I don’t understand it when women say they want a man to love them for who they are. Well of course, but they will never get to know who you are if they are not initially attracted or drawn to us.
A man is not going to ask you out if he’s not pleased with your physical appearance. If you don’t attract him or get his attention, you’ll never get a chance to share all the wonderful aspects of your personality. The bottom line is that it’s your exterior that gets his attention, and it is who you are on the inside that keeps him coming back for more. So, take time to focus on your physical appearance by completing a beauty transformation!
J.J. Smith is a Dating Diva who offers a fresh perspective on dating and relationships that will help you create a wonderful life that attracts the best men for you and get the love you really want! To learn more about her highly anticipated book, Why I Love Men: The Joys of Dating, as well as other eBooks and free articles, visit www.jjsmithonline.com
July 8th, 2010 at 8:05 am
jj i just started reading your articles on mass appeal and i enjoy how you put it down for the ladies. i like how you put it out there cut and dry. if we dont take care of our physical appearance what man will want us? great article!
July 8th, 2010 at 6:32 pm
good tips for da ladies jj. but u shoulda added paintin dem toenails. the first thing i look for in a chickenhead is if her toenails are done. if her feet are bad she gets no play. ashy feet and bad toenails turn a playa off
July 9th, 2010 at 11:52 am
I agree with everything JJ said. She is on point. Anyone who says it’s not what’s on the outside but what’s on the inside that counts probably needs a makeover of his/her own. I have always been praised for my knack for wearing items that “work for me”. I don’t necessarily run out and buy the latest trendy look. I buy things that play up my assets. Every style is not meant for every figure. I’m tall and leggy so I wear things that play those features up. And women have to buy things that make them feel sexy, attractive, and ALIVE! It’s that sex appeal that drives men wild and makes them curious about “the fine woman who just walked in…”
I wear whatever makes me feel sexy because it’s not only the clothes that men notice but the attitude that comes with that look that draws men to me. And I do try to stay fit and in shape. Men tend to be forward-thinking when it comes to appearances. They look at a woman and imagine what she will look like 10-20 years from now. If you are already overweight and out of shape, a man realizes that you are most likely only going to get bigger and more out of shape as the years wane and THAT idea is most certainly to be a turn-off. And try to maintain some natural beauty. Everything on you should not be artificial (hair, nails, breasts, buttocks, lips, eyes, lashes, etc.) A man wants to know that when you take all that off, you are still going to look like someone he wants to wake up next to. It’s hard for him to imagine that if all about you is unnatural.
Sexiness is not just a look—it’s all about ATTITUDE!