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Olivia reveals 8 things men should never tell a woman
Olivia says watch what you say.
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SEATTLE — “🎵I’ll give you the sun, the rain, the moon, the stars and the mountains. I’ll give you the world and all that you wish for.🎵” Fellas, are you telling women all the lovely things they want to hear only to find out they still don’t respect you? Are you bustin’ your azz to make ’em happy but it ain’t enough? If so, I have great news! A viral video shows “Blueprint” author Olivia Alexa telling simps to, “Never say these eight things to a woman.” Because it’s her assertion “they’ll almost always backfire,” making you their doormat. The forbidden octet are: 1) You Are My Everything: “Telling a woman she’s your everything is the fastest way to destroy your own value. You hand over all your power and put her on a pedestal. Now she’s looking down at you. Women don’t respect that. They’re wired to be drawn to a man who stands on his own.” 2) I Don’t Know What I Would Do Without You: “You’re basically admitting that you can’t function on your own, which screams emotional dependency. That makes you a liability, not an asset.” 3) I Will Never Hurt You: “Telling her, ‘I will never hurt you,’ is setting yourself up to fail because nobody is perfect. When you promise something like this, she’ll hold it over your head the second you slip up and never let you forget it.”
4) You Are Too Good For Me: “This one is pure self-sabotage. You’re showing her you don’t believe in your own worth. Women don’t want a man who puts himself down.” 5) You Complete Me: “It’s the most detrimental thing you can say. You’re basically admitting that you’re not whole enough on your own, which is a huge red flag 🚩.” 6) Tell Me What You Want Me To Do: “[This] is a dead giveaway that you lack leadership. Women don’t want to lead. They’re wired to want a man who knows where he’s going.”
7) I Will Always Be Here For You No Matter What: “This sounds like loyalty. But really it’s an invitation for her to walk all over you. She can start testing your boundaries and taking your presence for granted. Women don’t respect a man who has no limit.”
And, 8) I Will Do Anything To Make You Happy: “When you tell a woman this, you’re basically saying that her happiness is more important than your own standards, boundaries and self-respect. You’re willing to sacrifice anything just to please her; which puts you in a very weak, vulnerable, submissive position.”
Social media reaction was wild.
One commenter wrote, “Soooooo… Pretty much never tell a woman how much she means to you😂😂😂.”
Another chimed in with, “So she’s basically saying be like Pookie & Ray Ray. Modern women have monolith thinking. That’s why so many are single.”
A third viewer added, “Just beat her ass, treat her like sh*t, and she’ll love you to death.”
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Dam am glad being single
eww who says such things
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So many dudes are saying it to so many Ladies, just to get what they want, they don’t mean it 😂
I got one:
I hope that’s your feet that I smell…
There is only two things you should never say to a woman :
1) Anything at all.
2) Repeat # 1
Shit like this is why I masturbate. Women are impossible to please.
No shit
Who gives a crap about what women like or dislike , they can get with me or get lost … either way I’m cool
Every one of these things about what not to say to a woman demonstrates. What’s wrong with them? Not what’s wrong with men. If you have to come up with all these rules and things to avoid making her not like you or giving up your power to her or whatever BS it is
That’s their problem. Not the man’s problem.
Men stay single
Basically the man’s safest bet is to keep his big mouth shut…..lol
Too much work. How about be yourself and let her deal with it
I got one. Never tell a woman that coochie good she got you trapped.
NEVER put a woman on a pedestal
All of these lines are pretty corny to be honest
None of this stuff is true
This should be titled; how to be a doormat for females!
If Olivia is a single woman, she shouldn’t advice any man.That’s my mind.
Yes, but let’s be honest: 1st, Not ALL women. 2nd, Women aren’t dumb. They know when a man is being sincere or talking out of his rear.
I’ve said, “You complete me.” to 3 different females. They knew the line and laughed. And I still got laid! So….
Women are disgusting human beings
Modern women are stupid.
One final thing I’m glad she said this at the final of her things to not say to a woman I seen a poster on the wall of the office where I pay my rent and it stood out to me. It’s simply said when someone else’s happiness. is your happiness that’s love that’s how it ought to be between a man and a woman they supposed to look out for each other. They are each other’s happiness. ther supposed to bring Each other Great joy when a woman’s happiness becomes a man’s happiness, she’s not supposed to see it as someone she can walk all over, and his happiness is supposed to be her happiness as well they’re not supposed to walk all over each other. That’s when both parties will have to answer to God concerning that because it is in the word of God that husbands and wives are supposed to love one another as Christ loved the church. to understand exactly how much Christ love the church we have to read our word and see for ourselves because we’ve been doing it all wrong the whole time
Let’s not forget men are raised to be dependent on their future 1 and only wife of they whole life. Men are trained as a child to be this way to show the women they truly love them. Basically most mothers raise their sons like they have one vagina and not two testicles. That’s why men have such a hard time. Men are fighting against their nature for the sake of their mothers, grandmothers, and girlfriends feelings. It’s an unnecessary emotional roller coaster. All these sayings are what women is supposed to tell men.
@t2trew: 🎯 90% of men are raised to be simps nowadays
So basically, don’t love these crows.
Or just simply get a passport and meet a “”woman,”” from a so-called third world country..
Men shouldn’t care about what women say/think, anyway.
And then slap her around and she’ll like u more 😂😂😂🙃🙃🙃
So basically yall prefer single men?? This shit is insane. Fellas stack your bread and don’t take any of these women serious, they are all delusional, even the ones like her on these podcast trying to pander to men as if they are advocating for us🤦🏾♂️ yall mother’s generation ruined yalls perspective on healthy relationships and genuine love, this is ridiculous.
Psychology 101 is on deck. Y’all fellas better learn something 😂😂😂
Only simps say that shit
Get a passport. These women got too much BS to go thru or get a Hispanic woman they don’t care about height, money, and none of that dumb shit she said.
I’m soooo glad that I have never said any of these things at 49 yrs old
Wow!! Do some men really say this stuff?!!!
Are they that weak and pathetic?
I usually tell them the opposite of this list
My friend said he does what his wife says because happy wife happy life!!! I said you simp get outta my face your banned for life.
It’s a shame we living in a generation where a man can no longer express how good his woman makes him feel in the Bible Men and women were meant to highly esteem each other every man to his own wife and every woman to her own husband originally they are supposed to put God first and each other comes after then they have children then they put God first and their children second and then they put each other third so the order is God first the children second then, each other third originally that’s how it’s supposed to be, but I still pray for this new generation of men and women, because we seriously need to get back to the old way of doing things because hell is real, and the love that God created with men and women is very much alive and well. This whole generation need to come to Jesus for salvation. and for a clear understanding of what true love and marriage is really all about.
those 8 things sounds like a 90s RnB track
This should be titled “What SIMPS say”….😂
But theses are the lyrics of some best 90s love songs 😂
I’ve always used the opposite of those comments to a woman. I usually say:
*I don’t need you
*I will always put myself first in our relationship
*You were my second choice
*Don’t expect me to make you happy
*I will probably leave you at some point
I found out a long time ago that women love to be mistreated and insulted. Very sad, but true.
I’ll just find me a 50 or 60 old woman who just fine and wanna be piped down time to time. Cause this young generation is weird. Esp Women!!!! 😢
Lmao!!! I already knew this from a 5 year relationship. This is just confirmation 💯
You would think these are compliments to the woman but she’ll use this against you😮
“You’re my everything”
Dude, how can she be your everything if you don’t even own yourself??🤦♂️
In other words, women are children in adult bodies! You have to watch what you say (and don’t say) to them.
…..im genuinely confused, they complain if you do this shit, and complain even more when you dont..🤷🏽♂️
Damn…I’ve literally said these to my own detriment…gotta change
What happen to the times Men would lay down the coat off their back so a woman wouldn’t step in a puddle
Wow!! 😲 all the points she mentioned all sound like RnB hit songs from the 90s!! 😳 OMG now I know why I hated that emasculating music! (On the side note that’s why I love Chris breezy’s music so much 😁)