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Jessica OS reveals top 8 traits of beta male simps

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Jessica says stop simping. 

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ATLANTA — “🎵I give good love. I’ll buy your clothes. I′ll cook your dinner too. Soon as I get home from work.🎵” Fellas, does your woman treat you like a walking ATM? Do you find yourself apologizing for sh*t that has nothin’ to do with you? If so, I have sad news. A viral video shows relationship vlogger Jessica Opare-Saforo revealing the Top 8 traits of a beta male simp. The Ghanaian broadcaster said she feels obligated to unveil the following octet because most simps don’t know they’re simping. 1) You spend money on her without commitment: “Taking a woman out to dinner is fine. But if you’re constantly shelling out cash on dates, gifts, rides and little treats for a woman who hasn’t even made it clear that she wants to be with you, well, congratulations! You’re her sponsor. Guys, women can smell when a guy is trying to purchase his way into her heart.”

2) You apologize for things that aren’t your fault: “When you say ‘sorry’ every time there’s tension, even if you didn’t do anything wrong, you’re not fixing the relationship. You’re training her to believe that you’ll accept blame for everything she does no matter what.”

3) You defend her when she’s clearly wrong: “Now, this is what I call the ‘Simps Badge of Honor.’ Standing up for her no matter what, even when she’s out of line.”

4) You chase harder when she pulls away: “Now this is classic simp behavior… She starts getting distant, Texts that used to be paragraphs are now one-word replies. Calls that used to last an hour suddenly go unanswered. And, instead of matching her energy, what do you do? You panic. You blow up her phone. You double text. You check in, ‘Hey, are you mad at me? Did I do something wrong?’ Chasing harder when she pulls away doesn’t bring her back… It actually pushes her further away because desperation smells.”

5) You let her control the relationship narrative: “Now, this is where a lot of men silently hand over their power without realizing it. She’s the one deciding whether you’re just talking, whether you’re exclusive, or keeping it casual, and you’re just sitting there waiting for her verdict. That’s simp territory.”

6) You’re afraid to say no:

If every time she asks for something, your time, your money, your attention, you automatically say ‘yes.’ You’re not being kind. You’re being controlled.”

7) You sacrifice your masculinity just to keep her: “Now, this is the deadliest form of simping because it doesn’t happen all at once. It actually happens slowly, piece by piece, until you wake up one day and don’t recognize yourself. You skip hanging out with your boys because she gets mad when you’re not around, right? You stop playing your favorite sport because she says that’s childish. You drop your hobbies. You drop your passions, your purpose, all in the name of keeping this woman happy.”

And, 8) You put her above yourself every time: “I saved this for last because it’s the ultimate simp move. Always putting her on a pedestal while you shrink into the background. And the thing is, it doesn’t look like strength or love to her. It looks like weakness.”

Ouch!

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  2. Your woman will NEVER admit this but the guy she liked the most, probably did the least for her.

  4. Whooo Im not a simp!!She didn’t say anything about subscribing to OnlyFans and giving them my money!!!

  6. So true,I simped for a women for four months, took her out for drinks and appetizers at our favorite bar,nothing in return, she admitted she was a poor cook and cooked me a poor meal once…..finally told her this relationship was going nowhere and dumped her ….

  16. Who said dont take advice from women on other women?? This is why things aren’t so black and white. I hear men that say you cant take advice from a fish(a woman) to catch a fish(women), but its clear Jessica knows what she’s saying……

  18. Currently, a friend of mine is going through simping to the highest degree and wants to take his life just because his lady with whom they have a child together says she is not continuing the relationship anymore.

  21. she not lying, even if you don’t think you’re simping you’re probably simping. you bought her food? simping lol – had a girl i was about to go see in another state, I decided not to date her right now and she didn’t want to see me at all despite me still wanting to treat her out lol – like completely 180 like damn, we can’t even start slow as friends – then she made me realize that interaction was transactional lol

  23. I’ll just stay alone because I’m not one to play games. If I wanted to play games I would play my Playstation.

  31. It depends. If his intention is to smash but never does then I would say he’s a “simp”. But if he just a nice person like that then what’s the issue if he doesn’t have an issue with it?

  32. Doing something nice without expecting anything in return does not make you a simp. Doing it on a regular basis with hopes of getting something and never getting it makes you a simp

  34. This woman wanted me to bail her out of jail after 2 weeks of talking. Gtfoh!!!

  37. I work with a huge simp, who is always defending and pedestalizing women. It’s pathetic, most dudes are simps. I am so glad I woke up many years ago.

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