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Women need more than foreplay.
Blog King, Mass Appeal
SEATTLE — A viral video shows “Blueprint” author Olivia Alexa telling men to slow down in the bedroom. Because it takes time for women to get in the mood. Rather than pull out our penises and jump underneath the sheets, we should use a method called “effective priming” to get ’em wet. “When it comes to the bedroom, women are a lot harder to please,” Olivia said. “Because women live inside their heads the majority of the time. It takes a rare kind of guy that can ignite sexual desire in a woman and make her feel just as excited to jump in bed with him.” Olivia believes physical appearance has nothin’ to do with making women horny. Instead, it’s all about swag. “Now when I say ‘rare kind of guy,’ you’re probably thinking I’m talking about looks or status. But you’re wrong,” Olivia said. “The fact is making a woman crave you sexually starts in the mind. It’s about understanding what makes her tick. It’s about knowing your way around her mind, body and soul.”
“If there was one phrase to describe how women get aroused long-term, it’s ‘buildup,'” Olivia continued. “This is a secret only some guys will understand. While men can quickly go from 0 to 100, women need to be eased into it over a period of minutes, hours or sometimes even days. It’s a gradual buildup of sexual tension that eventually makes her crave you.
“The first step to doing that is making sure there’s an emotional connection already established. She needs to feel safe and secure in your presence before she can be vulnerable in her sexuality. Unlike men, she can’t feel that state of arousal and lust before the emotional foundation is laid. Women live on how you make them feel. You can throw all the logic out there, all of the knowledge, all the wisdom. It will not matter. Women live on emotions and how you make them feel.”
Social media reaction was priceless.
One commenter wrote, “Good grief… you gotta be a living romance novel to get women in the mood.”
Another chimed in with, “This is why men should start being with men at this point.”
A third viewer added, “Is this a PhD program? Like, who is really gonna take time from their life purpose to become a relationship Einstein for a lady who’s probably already cheating, or may seek to cheat for her lack of being content?”
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