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Bride humiliates her groom, saying she won’t ‘obey’ him
Bride humiliates her groom.
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ATLANTA — A viral TikTok video shows a bride humiliating her groom during their wedding ceremony because she refused to say she would “obey” him as part of their conjugal vows. Yep, babygirl cherry-picked excerpts from the bible that benefit her most. When the pastor asked her if she will love, cherish and obey the simp, the contumacious damsel wouldn’t commit to the latter. “We didn’t talk about that one in counseling,” she told the minister as the audience erupted in laughter. “We did talk about that in counseling,” he replied. Then the bishop asked her if he should repeat the question or keep going. “I think we can keep going,” she retorted. Babygirl also hesitated when asked if she’d stay with homeboy through “poorer” times. Lord have mercy. Social media reaction was venomous. One commenter wrote, “She needs to stay by herself. She will not obey and respect him. He needs to flee from her and get the woman he deserves.”
Another chimed in with, “Dude is a simp and he’s getting what he deserves. Holy matrimony? A man of God would never take a woman like that to the altar. She made a mockery of the bible.” A third viewer added, “Modern women need a new set of vows that go like this: I will stay if you’re healthy but leave when you’re sick. You must forgive my past 304 ways and overlook my cheating when things get rocky. I’ll stay if you’re rich but leave when you’re poor. I won’t sign a prenuptial agreement and DNA tests ain’t allowed.”
What’s my take?
I would’ve told her to get her ass in the kitchen and cook, plus I require sex two or three times a day or no marriage.
Should the groom purchase a passport and find his wife overseas?
Are Western women good for dating only?
Watch the embarrassing ceremony.
Share your thoughts.
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Homie deserves everything that’s coming to him. Imagine being reminded in real time that you’re about to make the biggest mistake of your life and you stand there cackling like an idiot.
As a woman, married for 14 years together for 19, I feel for this man. To him I say when someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time. He already knows but is in denial. I guess we’re all hopeful and love can make us blind and stupid.
Obey and submit means the man has final say and lead. People abuse that but you as a woman should see those red flags b4 you marry.
Don’t walk run dude 😂
humongous red flag
He’s a fool if he still went through with the marriage. She already let him know that she’ll never respect him as the leader.
Call it off
@Jerk My Beef: I agree – this is a red flag. However, she alluded to discussing this in a council with the pastor & the pastor agreed. Therefore, it’s reasonable to believe he knew beforehand she’d have a problem with it & chose to marry her anyway. He deserves what he’s going to get!
that wasn’t funny. plus at the wrong time. ephesian 5:21-25, ephesian 5:31-33, proverbs 13:13, proverbs 31:12.
It’s over. It’s never been more over than it was in that particular moment. Buddy is in for hell.
She’s not even trying to use acting skills to play it off. She’s hung on “poorer” and “obey” and she’s giving REAL AF signs that she doesn’t care. His friends failed him. The pastor failed him. He failed himself.
That shittttttt is not funny! He should have walked off and left her ass!!!
As a married woman of 15 years I remember we had to go to spiritual counseling. My bishop sat us both down and broke down the meaning of each vow bit by bit and made sure we understood what each one meant in relation to our marriage. I remember he said if he felt like I didn’t fully understand wifely duties then he would not marry us because that is something not taken lightly.
Boys, if you’re ever in this situation, just let go and tell everyone the wedding is off.
Trust me, if you were looking for a sign from God, THIS IS IT!
did he still marry her , because it seems marriage these days are just for convenience , for tax brackets , job requirement , status , citizenship , swingers , entitlement for half of a man’s wealth after giving nothing into the marriage , all these things except love and legacy
This is literally embarrassing to this man. I would’ve pulled a Coming to America. Told the audience to give me about 15 minutes to discuss this matter.
People need to understand that you OBEY GOD!! PERIOD!
You can tell that the bride only viewed the pre-wedding counsel sessions as just a box to be checked and had no intention of meeting the groom’s expectations. She’s a shallow and prideful woman and I foresee a lot of pain in the groom’s future.
😥Sad that people now find it funny.
I wish they’d just change vows to “til I’m either bored or inconvenienced by you”. That’s what women mean anyways lol
She has chosen to go contrary to the Bible teaching, and she is using religion to officiate her marriage, how ironic…..if it was me i would have stopped the wedding and went inside for consultation
@James Wade: YOU DAMN RIGHT! 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 I’m a married woman, of 15 years. I wish it was more years. With all that said, this is why the family is so disgusting, disrespected, and disruptive these days. Women are out here wilding, and no one can tell them nothing! Well said👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👊🏿👊🏿👊🏿👊🏿👊🏿👊🏿.
What REALLY makes me sick is the audience members laughing at her nonsense! Has society’s values fallen so far that they’ll laugh at a bride disrespecting her groom, the pastor, the entire institution of marriage as a whole, and the groom’s family right at the alter?!
The groom deserves all the misery that coming into his life as well! He invited a woman like her into his life willingly, so he deserves it! He’s already in marriage counseling and they haven’t even tied the knot yet! He should’ve apologized to his friends and family for wasting their time and money by making them come to this sham wedding; and then he should’ve left her ass right there at the alter, crying in her wedding dress!
Most modern women would rather “submit or obey” to their “employer” or the “sistahood” but not a sensible relationship. SMH 🤦♂️
What type of ghetto marriage is this
Lets face it, the man/groom is what is wrong with that clip.
He chose her, he knows her but he decides to have a life with her.
He laughing too and thinks its a game…there will be prizes.
…I cant blame that woman one bit in this scenario.
Hope he done a prenup… this 304 is going to fuck him over
Let’s check back on his marriage in two years. We as men ignore all the Red Flags when they’re clearly there from the beginning.
Did he take her last name?
This man deserves everything coming to him. You cannot be that weak and stupid
The dude shouldn’t have laughed, he gave the green light for her to say it.
She was probably going to say it anyway because she already long since tested how far she can push him, but still, it’s pretty embarrassing……….
He should have left her standing at the altar. She’s average at best. He’ll regret that in a week tops.
I actually wonder if she had a Father in her life because it starts with him preparing her to be a good wife especially if the young brotha asked her Father for his blessing.
This woman has lost all her cortisol. This is why you marry a younger woman
I am seeing a divorce in their future
🤣 at her wedding she couldn’t even help herself. Total narcissist. Her “hey don’t forget about me” moment. 💀
Obey and submit doesn’t mean be a mindless slave. Wake the fk up and stop the bs. Modern women are being set up to be in a relationship with artificial intelligence.
Is this what black men have to deal with when being with black women?
If you find anyone that has something negative to say about passport bros just show them this clip.
The wedding should have been shut down as soon as she pulled that as it shows blatantly she will be a problem and is the type to divorce and screw a man. Groom needs to annul that crap ASAP.
That fool is weak and she knows it. No way she would have pulled this with a confident man. 3 years or sooner after a baby, she’s going to file for divorce and take his pockets after taking his balls. And guess what? He deserves it.
Shoulda left her ass standing there… I woulda.
Ummmm… This is why black women are not chosen as wives. Most of these trauma beings aren’t worth marriage today. Culturally we perpetuate fuckery. This boss bitch energy is not marriage worthy.
Wow, you know it is bad when she can’t even lie about it like she did with the rest of the vows.
She’s slick. She finna get pregnant during the honeymoon. After a few years she’s gonna divorce him and get child support. Might try to get spousal support. Nobody will ever be able to say she trapped him because he’s the one that asked her to get married.
Children should obey not a grown woman to obey a man
You cannot change the words of God.
Not only is she a modern 304 with all that comes with it, she is a liar and tried gaslighting the pastor. Wow she has zero morals and integrity.
Brodda up there laughing to save face that ain’t no laughing matter! He should run!!!
I don’t personally know ANY Pastor, certainly not my Pastor, who would have continued performing, signing off on, and validating this wedding ceremony after she said that.
I used to be the personal assistant to the Senior Pastor of an extremely large church and I can’t envision any circumstance where a couple wouldn’t have gone through EVERY portion of the wedding vows “prior” to the wedding ceremony. This woman will DEFINITELY remind him of this moment the second there’s a disagreement.