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Olivia says don’t argue with women, instead say this…..

Women play games.
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SEATTLE — “🎵You talk too much! Homeboy, you never shut up!🎵” Fellas, do you often have contretemps with your chick about sh*t that has nothin’ to do with you? Does she gaslight you into thinking you’re always doing something wrong? If so, I have intriguing news! In her podcast called “Stop Talking Too Much,” relationship author Olivia Alexa revealed the one word every man should utter when his woman tries to start an argument. Yep, just one word. But you have to say it with confidence, with conviction à la Lil Jon. “Most men lose control the second she pushes,” said the prepossessing redbone. “They try to overexplain. They try to prove their worth. That’s why they lose ground fast. But this one word keeps you grounded. It makes her stop and reassess who she’s dealing with. Because when you say it, you’re no longer reacting to her. You’re setting the tone. That one word is: ‘Okay.’ Not ‘okay’ with a soft tone. Not ‘okay’ with a question mark. I’m talking about ‘okay,’ flat, final unbothered — delivered with eye contact and a calm tone that makes her question whether the game she’s trying to play is even worth it.”
“Because when you use this word, she has nothing to push against. You’re not fueling the argument. You’re not reacting to her bait. You’re showing her that no matter what she throws at you, you’re still in control. And that alone stops her cold in her tracks because she doesn’t know what to do next,” Olivia continued.
She expected a reaction. You gave her nothing. This taps into a psychological trigger called ‘Social Mirroring,’ which just means that people naturally match the energy of whoever they’re dealing with. If you get emotional, she’ll mirror that. If you stay calm, so does she. But when you give her nothing — no reaction, no emotion, no explanation — it messes with her. It throws her off-guard because she was counting on you to respond a certain way. And now she’s trying to figure out her next move.”

Because too many women don’t know when to shut the f*ck up, the onus is on men to keep sh*t from gettin’ out of hand. In lieu of cussin’ each other out, sometimes it just makes more sense to say ‘okay’ and move on. “The mistake a lot of women make is they take it too far,” Olivia said. “They don’t know when to stop. So what started out as a simple pressure check turns into a power struggle.”
“Because deep down she’s waiting for you to shut it down,” she continued.
“She’s looking for a man who doesn’t get pulled into the back and forth. A man who feels like he doesn’t have to defend himself. That’s what ‘okay’ does. It ends the performance without having to raise your voice, without playing into her game. Because when you say ‘okay,’ you’re showing her something 90 percent of men never master: Emotional self-control… That’s what most men miss. They think dominance is about force, but real power is about control.”
Social media reaction was hilarious.
One commenter wrote, “So I’m a provider, protector, babysitter and therapist? Got it!”
Another chimed in with, “Nah, you don’t say ‘okay.’ You check that bitch. After that, you walk away with no explanation. Either she comes back, or she don’t. No time for games.”
A third viewer added, “I will never forget when my ex told me she was breaking up with me. And me, thinking I was being a healthy partner and someone who respects women, accepted the breakup and told her that I wished her the best. She then started freaking out and screaming and crying that I clearly ‘don’t care’ about her and that if I truly loved her I would fight to hold onto her. Yeah sorry, that’s way too much energy and work on my part for an average looking woman with BPD and narcissism.”
Will you take advantage of Olivia’s expert tutelage?
Or, continue to let women gaslight you?
Watch babygirl keep it a buck.
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“The only winning move is not to play” -Patrice Oneal
So, having emotion in you voice can provoke women. Removing emotion from your voice as to not provoke women, also provokes women. Got it
Me and my Ex-wife were in a fight once and we were not seeing eye to eye on the issue. I said “Honey we are missing something here. Please repeat back to me what I say.” She couldn’t do it! She was unable to repeat the words I said. I am not going into details but example ” I will be home at 3. Please repeat back to me.” Her response “you would rather be doing anything else than see me.” We went around like this for 20 minutes, she couldn’t just accept I was going to be home at 3, everything had to have 2 or 3 other meanings. Divorced 13 years and I still don’t have any desire to marry again.
Pretend you’re talking to a child with emotional problems
Women in a nutshell
Guys, here’s a free nugget of practical wisdom for you:
When she acts up or misquotes you or acts bratty, say the ONLY thing that they respond to:
“I do not accept that”.
This phrase somehow stops them in their tracks and causes them to get out of the “my emotion must be reality” mode and brings them into your rational mode. Try it guys, it works.
“I don’t accept that.”
I had to end a 13 year relationship with an agreeable single mom because her daughter turned 16 and became decidedly most UNagreable, and mom took her side 💯 and ran block on any attempts to instill discipline. Daughter learned she could ride roughshod over me and mom would have her back.
Relationship with a woman is too much work.
The more i learn, the less i want. A wise man once said, “You can’t love women, and understand them.”
At this stage, they need to start pleasing themselves.
As I have said before and I will say it again when a woman test me im gone !!! She can play her test games with someone else. As a 54 year old wise black man if a woman feels the need to test you shes not worth your time . This is the part Olivia isn’t telling you.
The juice is simply not worth the squeeze any more with today’s entitled flaky narssisitic women
So, basically, guys have to walk on eggshells. smh
Pay attention here gentlemen, you’re learning about female behavior whilst also learning about how to deal with children. Fantastic advice.
She’s basically saying make peace with the enemy 💀
I REFUSE to have the “whatever you say dear” or “happy wife, happy life” BS. I will NOT tolerate their “how I feel” over logic and reality. I would rather lose THEM than lose in a righteous fight. And I have lost many. As it shall always be.