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Black woman tells her date Cheesecake Factory sucks

Black chick demands 5-star treatment/YouTube

Black chick slams dating partner.

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ATLANTA — A viral TikTok video shows a high-maintenance black chick refusing to egress the car because an Indian n*gga she met online took her to “The Cheesecake Factory” on their first date, and she felt she deserved better. The crazy ordeal went down in Atlanta. In the clip (watched by roughly 3 million people), the rapacious redbone made it crystal clear she’s way too prepossessing to manducate at a franchise eatery. To her, it’s either five-star or bust. “I ain’t getting out this car. This is the Cheesecake Factory. This is the Cheesecake Factory, y’all,” she told her audience while looking into the camera. “What’s the problem with that?” he replied. “Who takes someone that looks like this to a chain restaurant?” she retorted. “So you expect a man to go all out on a first date?” he countered. “I mean, you’re supposed to. Look at me. When you take out a beautiful woman, and you’re courting her, you’re supposed to take care of her… You’re supposed to protect her. Cherish her. Treat her well,” she explained.

As soon as baybgirl said all that, the guy became a bumbling idiot.

The video is very painful to watch.

Social media reaction was wild. One commenter wrote, “I bet that’s the last black chick he takes out on a date😂😂😂.” Another chimed in with, “Not all women are like this. If men don’t want to be put in the ‘All Men Are Dogs’ category, then please don’t put us in the same box as this disgraceful woman. That kind of thinking is unfair and narrow-minded. Don’t put us in a category you wouldn’t put your mother in. Hopefully, you won’t.” A third viewer added, “If he was black, she would’ve called him a broke, bum-ass n*gga.”

Can’t lie. The plus-size narcissist looked sexy in a plunging neon frock that offered an erotic panorama of her plump embonpoint.

But she showed homeboy no respect.

When the 7-Eleven clerk arrived to pick her up, she wouldn’t let him inside her apartment.

Then she made him wait an hour in his car.

Ain’t that a bitch?

Give Habib credit. He politely took her home because he “didn’t feel respected.”

What’s my take?

Most of what she said is correct. As men, we’re supposed to show women a good time and, yes, we’re supposed to protect them. But she should’ve made her dining preferences known before the date. It’s not what she said, it’s when she said it. That’s why I usually let women pick venues so I don’t end up in situations like this. Hell… if it was up to me, I’d take every popsy to Gates BBQ.

As for online dating? I don’t have an opinion because I’ve never done it. Not knocking it. Just never tried it.

But I imagine babygirl is capable of updating her profile so that bachelors can decipher whether or not she’s a good fit.

Also, when you first meet a stranger, the first date should take place at a coffeehouse.

One of my media confrères suggested I try online dating as an experiment then write a blog.

All of my friends do it, so I’ll have plenty of help building a profile.

She said I should date three or four chicks then draw a juxtaposition between ’em.

It’ll be good research.

We’ll see. Right now, I’m happy playing Xbox and watching movies during my days off.

I’m very slothful. Not sure I have the drive to go on a bunch of dates.

I’m Pookie & Ray Ray minus the femicide.

Besides, online dating appears to be a waste of time and money.

Anyway, did Habib handle the situation appropriately?

Should he purchase a passport?

Watch the gold digger unleash a diatribe.

Share your thoughts.

@moniquelsantos09 #fyp #foryoupage #dating #relationship #datinglife #datingover30 #blackrelationships ♬ original sound – Monique Santos

This Post Has 95 Comments

  1. No black man would’ve dealt with such crassness and disrespect. She would’ve been putting one foot in front of the other in a continuous motion down the road if that was me

  2. I just went to the Cheesecake Factory I love the Cheesecake Factory 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  3. She’s delusional & has unrealistic expectations. The first few dates are her opportunity to INTERVIEW for courtship. (Intelligent Men don’t “court” a stranger. In many instances during dates 1-5, the woman is still essentially “a stranger.” You’re trying to assess her character & who you’re dealing with). She need to get her head straight.

  4. I don’t understand that the “Cheesecake factory” isn’t good enough for a date. But you would probably go out as a family to “Golden Corral” on a sunday afternoon.

  5. She thought she had a sucka ! 😂😂😂👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  6. Kudos to the man for his response. No woman no matter how pretty she thinks she is should be allowed to be disrespectful and bratty. Good for him that he cut his losses and took her ridiculous behind home. Bet she wished she had shut her mouth and went into the Cheesecake Factory.

  7. In the words of Alonzo Harris: Oh no you won’t, you done fucked that up.

  8. Dude handled that situation like a G. First of all, she said she “got all made for him.” Really, that’s what all made up looks like? And not to be mean, but she’s a 6-6.5 at best.

    She changed her tune when dude flipped-the-script. She was definitely on a Foodie Call. Now she has to go home and settle for some Ramen Noodles and fried baloney.

    And let me say this, women overestimate their value to a man they just met. They see themselves as an investment rather than a date. When a man invests large sums of money, he does so with the expectation of a return. That doesn’t apply to a first date with a female. That falls more into the category of a gamble.

  9. This is a simple fix, just take her back to where she lives and call it a night!!!! To do other wise, you would be setting yourself up for a life time of trying to satisfy this woman’s “Fourteen Carrot 🥕 Mind 🧠!!!!!”

  10. This is why black men are getting their passports 😂🤷🏽‍♂️💃🏿🏃🏽‍♂️✈️🌏

  11. He was probably embarrassed cause she had her WHOLE upper body out. Beauty is only skin deep, all her bones are ugly. Make her walk home!!!

  12. She is a 3, a 4 at BEST and she had that man waiting like that? These women have LOST their MINDS💯

  13. When I lived there I went to the Cheesecake Factory out in Buckhead/Atlanta near Lennox Mall. Trust me, i have seen women there who look far better than her… ✌️

  14. Her ass would have been calling a Uber from the cheesecake factory parking lot. In fact she would have been calling to see why I left her at home after waiting more than 15 minutes.

  15. Ladies you not paying for date so you absolutely have no control where we going either it’s alright where I’m going or were not going out.

  16. 😂 MY SWEET DEAD GRANDMA USED TO SAY… about women like this…👠👄💄💋
    “If you could BUY her for what she’s worth and SELL her for what she THINKS SHE’s WORTH-
    You’d be a V E R Y,
    🤑💰RICH MAN!”

  17. Fellas, y’all have to stop taking these garden hoes out to eat. If you feed her she’ll get full and drunk off your dime….then she’ll call boyfriend # 2 to come ova to her crib to blow her back out. When are y’all gonna learn…you can’t be nice to these 304s.

  18. He should have taken her out for coffee first to get to know her and he could see her terrible attitude

  19. One thing I hate is women always think they’re always right! No matter what the situation is 😡

  20. I can’t get enough of watching everyone’s take on this video. At first it was hard to watch men of other ethnic groups experience the humiliation we go through. But after the cringe it becomes delicious to watch 😂

  21. So it’s too early to let him in your house but not too early to take you to a five star restaurant?

  22. I wouldn’t even talk to her about it. I’d just take her ass home and call it day.

  23. There is nothing wrong with the Cheesecake Factory!! Something is wrong with her. She thinks she’s all that and a bag of chips. He is really a nice, respectful guy and she ruined the moment. She’s all in herself and she needs to be by herself!!! As she said I don’t know you that well. So since you don’t know him that well, he don’t know you that well either, so Cheesecake Factory was a perfect choice.😄

  24. Maaaannn listen…if Beyoncé good wit Red lobster then that’s the standard! 😂😂😂😂

  25. The truth is the black community is too shallow, men calling themselves kings and bosses because they sell drugs and women calling themselves queens and goddesses because they get likes on social media by shaking their ass. This is what many of the black community represent 🤷🏻‍♀️

  26. This was so embarrassing to watch! I’m so sick of these type of privileged ungrateful women that believe they deserve shit just because they are pretty! And in this case girl you ain’t even bad frfr 🙄🙄 definitely doing too much.. So glad he took her azz back home

  27. As a grow woman, I am so embarrassed. Please men know that most of us are NOT like this. How women like this gets dates when nice and friendly women don’t blows my mind. If a date ever took me to Cheesecake Factory I would be very appreciative of it, as most women would.

  28. My first date with my husband was at a local restaurant that he liked (I was new to the area and he wanted to show me around). He picked me up in a 1992 oldsmobile that he had kept pristine for years (this was in 2014). We enjoyed our food and ended up staying for over 2 hours talking until the restaurant wanted us to leave. 2 1/2 years after that first date, we celebrated our engagement at the Cheesecake Factory. I was just grateful that he would spend any money on me at all. He never had to do that, but he did so because he wanted to. We’ve been happily married for 6 years. I’ve never had an instagram account, tiktok, and deleted Facebook years ago. Make life simple. 😊

    Ladies, men do not owe you anything. They give out of the kindness of their hearts and to expect more from them, when they owe you nothing at all, is so incredibly wrong and a huge double standard. Be thankful that they want to gift you a free meal when they offer, but never expect it. I fear for the younger generations and how men are being treated. Female entitlement and female double standards are going to detroy male generosity and ruin it for the future generations if this ridiculous behavior continues.

  29. 😂 that’s what y’all get for telling these hyenas and prostitutes they’re “qweens” 🙄😆😆

    I don’t feel bad for him.
    And she looks cheap and egotistical. I wouldn’t take her to the corner liquor store.
    But…😊i don’t have to associate with these chicks

  30. Walking Contradictions ! She said it’s 2 early to come up to her apartment. However, he supposed to go All out and take her to the World’s Greatest Restaurant , Right ? Fellas, Ain’t No Woman worth this ! She really believe she doing him a favor but, he’s the one PAYING for the date !

  31. This is so true. Women want to be equal untillllllllllllll it doesn’t fit their agenda. Then they will cry foul. Want those old traditional men but won’t do old traditional women role’s because it’s modern times 🤦🏽‍♂️

  32. SYSBM 🤔🖤💯 Facts leave these 304z City girls THOTz alone 🤷🤣💔🖤🤔😡

  33. This bum chick probably never been to a cheesecake factory, they have good food and are expensive as Hell!

  34. She didn’t want him to see her air mattress on the floor. 🤣 & he doesn’t know she’s just using him for the gram

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